BEYOND Facts: AMOR AND EXILE by Nathaniel Hoffman and Nicole Salgado
As
dramas along our borders are once again spotlighted by our media and social
networks, books like Amor and Exile: True Stories of Love Across America’s Borders by Nathaniel Hoffman and Nicole Salgado offer critical insights into
the lives of those who are impacted daily by our very complex immigration
system.
Described
as a mash-up of a work written by a journalist (Hoffman, who writes extensively
on immigration and politics) and one of his sources (Salgado, an ecologist,
teacher, and artist), Amor and Exile presents an impressive collection of
narratives that shed light on how thousands of Americans and their undocumented
immigrant loved ones struggle to keep their relationships—and often their families—intact. The fact that many such relationships endure despite what
often turns out to be seemingly insurmountable obstacles reveals not only the
determination of the people involved, but the depth of the love they have for
one another.
In
Hoffman’s first chapter, “Love in the Time of Deportation,” Nicole and her
husband, Margo, are introduced along with a number of other couples whose
relationships cross borders that include (but often aren’t limited to) nationality. Nicole then begins to describe what she and Margo endured through
the years that ultimately led to her current exile in Mexico with her husband
and daughter, despite the fact that she is an American citizen.
All
the stories in this book reveal the stress and struggles faced by loved ones of
undocumented immigrants living in the U.S. Fear of never seeing a spouse or
parent seems to be woven into the fabric of many of these families’ lives. As Hoffman puts it, there is a “world within America” that most of us do
not know exists, an America with its own system of courts and laws that gives
Americans with very personal ties to undocumented immigrants little, if any,
guidance. In this world the spouses and children of undocumented immigrants
“wait quietly in the shadows, unsure how their country
expects them to proceed, stuck in that limbo between love of family and respect
for the nation’s laws, torn between doing what’s right and doing what’s right.”
An
experienced international traveler and activist who was no stranger to sleeping
“on dirt floors, in hammocks and in sleeping bags out in the open,” Nicole
admits that after a short time the novelty of life in Mexico quickly began to
wear off for her. “But I didn’t want to go home,” she writes, “especially after
all we’d done to get here. Especially in light of the fact that Margo couldn’t
come back with me.”
Amor and Exile effectively contributes to the ongoing discussion of U.S. immigration
issues while it also reveals how related—and often very personal and painful—dramas play out across the country, usually far
from any border. It’s an important read for anyone interested in fully
understanding the impact of our country’s immigration policies on everyone
involved.
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